what's it got to do with it?

i still can't help thinking about our conversation at starbucks on sunday.

imagine years from now, when you have settled down with the guy/girl of your dreams; the one you've been waiting for or have been with for a really long time. mariage and a future together just seems like a natural progression. but somewhere along the line, either before or after the marriage, you realised you are living a lie. neither you nor him are in love anymore; you just refuse to let go of the safety net. life is dead, love is dead. it's a painful, silent existence. suddenly, you meet this other person and being with him/her makes you feel like the happiest person alive. despite the circumstances, you fall in love. as flawed an sinful as the feeling is, it consumes you whole because you've forgotten what it feels like to love, and be loved.

you are so happy. life has new meaning. your husband/wife couldn't give a damn.

is this adultery/infidelity, really?